Worthless worms…
Sorry, I’m a bit down
today, got to do with the date and losing some friends 11 years ago, I rather
not dwell on it so I’m having a rant about an email I got from a “worthless
worm not worthy, blah blah blah”
Seriously, why would
any domme worth her salt want a worthless worm? I mean if there are men with
self-respect, intelligence, brains, manners and all that willing to sub and
play, why on earth would I pick somebody who likens himself to a rather
disgusting decomposer? Nothing against worms, real ones, they do serve a
purpose, a guy claiming he’s a worthless worm serves no purpose, he’s simply
disgusting and to be honest a bit of an insult. What he’s saying is that I
can’t do better, well, sorry about that, but I think I can!
I get the humiliation
aspect, though I have to admit it’s not one of my great preferences, but
seriously, if you’re into degradation, shouldn’t I degrade you, calling
yourself a worthless worm is a little bit of DIY degradation, so where’s the
point?
This whole “worthless”
spiel also makes me think of somebody who’s mentally retarded or simply not
well grounded in life, those are seriously not people I want to have close and
personal interactions with. Sorry, I had my fair share of crazy stalkers and
psychopaths, I’m trying to avoid them actively, so a message that basically has
“CRAZY” blinking in red letters all over, just ain’t going to happen, duckie! I
just don’t feel suicidal enough to even entertain the idea of meeting up with
you…
I said it before and I
say it again, BDSM is a sport for grown ups, I want to play with somebody who’s
grown up, somebody who’s aware of the risks and takes them willingly because
let’s face it, SSC is a myth, there is nothing safe or sane about what we do,
all we can hope for is being risk aware.
And call me a pervert
(nothing wrong with that), but it’s just so much more fun to play with somebody
who’s intelligent and clued up, who does it willingly and not out of
desperation, who does it for ME, because he considers me worthy, not because he
thinks he’s unworthy. Somebody I can be depraved with, somebody who enjoys
things that would have your average guy call the cops or at least a shrink, and
we’re both enjoying ourselves. And after we’ve done all of that, there is still
the respect for each other as intelligent human beings. And we can sit down,
have a glass of wine and discuss the world – as equals. Talk about something
that’s really mind blowing!
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