tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557095701477634010.post2847337176962697317..comments2023-03-22T17:39:47.138-07:00Comments on Rants and Musings about BDSM and the word: Force me...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10017107251385332618noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557095701477634010.post-62116961186487948462013-02-10T11:28:54.048-08:002013-02-10T11:28:54.048-08:00LC,
Alright then, pushed it is.
To me anyway, mo...LC,<br /><br />Alright then, pushed it is.<br /><br />To me anyway, most bdsm activities feel a lot hotter and more exciting when the Domme is in a position to demand that I do whatever she wants me to do [pre-negotiated limits excepted] by using painful stimuli to “push” me to comply, whether I want to do it or not at that instant. Or, maybe she just wants to see me squirm or struggle with the pain. With enough pain, I become very obedient and accommodating. <br /><br />( don’t have the world’s highest pain tolerance, nor the lowest either.)<br /><br />What this translates into in my head is, I guess, a feeling of being subdued, of the Domme being totally in control and me being totally under her command. The fantasy (perhaps) is that I like whatever we do to be her idea … and that I have no choice at the moment but to follow along. And I really don’t want that choice.<br /><br />Of course, I do realize that for this sort of play to work well, the Domme has to have an understanding of what I actually do like to do and be willing to play to at least some of my interests and push some of my hot buttons.<br /><br />sbHAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557095701477634010.post-63780125140620015092013-01-29T05:48:10.338-08:002013-01-29T05:48:10.338-08:00I have no issue with wanting to be forced and all ...I have no issue with wanting to be forced and all that, but if you do dig into your pockets and you pay for it, you have already given consent and it isn't "really forced" - that stuff just doesn't work when money is involved. I think to want to be pushed is a much better word, forced has this "no consent" about it, and I'm pretty touchy about this stuff.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10017107251385332618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1557095701477634010.post-2567073234429675322013-01-22T19:23:19.384-08:002013-01-22T19:23:19.384-08:00Hi LC,
I really have confused feelings about this...Hi LC,<br /><br />I really have confused feelings about this posting, because I do like to be "forced," to some degree, to endure more pain than I really want ... to be pushed, I guess is another way to phrase it. Basically, consensual non-consensual play, where if I were not bound I would definitely stop the whipping, caning, whatever by physically moving away. My ideal is to play with a Domme who is truly quite sadistic [... but sane and caring] and who enjoys pushing me to accept as much pain as I can, and then goes a bit beyond that point.<br /><br />To quote the retired Mistress Simone of LA, "Some BDSM is highly anticipated before, despised during, and relished after the act. That is a part of masochism - doing things that you don't like." <br /><br />Please see also this recent review on MF:<br />http://www.maxfisch.com/thehang/showthreaded.php?Cat=&Board=reviews&Number=1602851&page=1&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1<br /><br />It seemed to me that the sub was forced a bit, and would have stopped the session if he could have (Would you agree?). Afterwards, he must have decided he liked it, as he was planning a follow up session ...<br /><br />I am interested in your thoughts on this, as I found that session review very erotic.<br /><br />Thanks,<br /><br />sbHAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com